Rhyme Asking For Money Instead Of Presents Birthday Does Anyone Have Any Ideas For A Nice Way To Ask Wedding Guests For Money Instead Of Having A Guest List?

Does anyone have any ideas for a nice way to ask wedding guests for money instead of having a guest list? - rhyme asking for money instead of presents birthday

We are getting married in July and need a good way to borrow money to bin instead of a guest list in the form of a song or a poem, and I could use a little help, please.

32 comments:

Lydia said...

There is no good way to do it - not easy. No asking for money or gift cards, etc. Let customers choose what they want to give you - and take on very friendly!

hez_able said...

I like to play the game ALL. Get a glass or a pretty box and decorative, but giving a box of ALL detergent and ask everyone to everything to win a prize at the reception. Then after all is what give each person guess how much money is in the bottle or box and the person who signed the will, to say the percentage that the winner takes is has it all. Now, the winner does not really all the money that the winner DETERGENT All profits and keep the money.

Paisley said...

I went to a wedding, where you pay for with the bride and groom or dance. That might work if I wanted to do. I think they are paying lol $ 5.

kimandry... said...

If you give our customers money, because the marriage or the bills to pay, then you'd better not be too much money for the marriage.
I find it very rude if I was asked to raise money for the bride and groom enter the marriage. It seems that they charge a fee to participate, at your wedding!

myluvall... said...

Hello:

I was not really sure how to do and still have your dignity. I went to many places and all have the same answer. I copied and pasted that answer for you:

How can I ask for money, rather than a gift?

In fact, there is no possibility of formulating the question of money for wedding gifts, but something else, without sticky. I am afraid that this is a fundamental rule of etiquette that should be taken seriously.

All you can do is to tell your friends and family of your choice. Then ask if others, your family and your friends might say that they prefer money, as they are ... (eg saving for a house, etc..)

Then the guests can do whatever they want. Take the Runway - GREAT - but if they do not accept the gift with an elegant thank you!

Again, the website I found the answer in the FAQ's Wedding

http://www.weddingfaq.com

Hope this helps. I founf site ask.com and search for "money instead of gifts," and also "WeddING opinion "

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding.

Be Safe & Wellness

nicole said...

I agree to borrow money, is not fair. You should be grateful to get something.

MB said...

It would be very bad. Do not ask for money. Of course, the new couples have to, but many people like to buy gifts. Unfortunately, this is how it is. Try things that you know that you saved to buy them anyway.
Please do not ask for money!

scrabble... said...

I am very surprised that so many people had of them negative. I think it could be based on what country you're in. Hang

It is useless, 10 towels and 15 people toaster, just because some people feel insulted when they asked for creative alternatives. Real friends, is really important, why do it, and if you do not give it anything.

This means that people really want that knows how to give a useful and practical gift, you have helped in the way that works best for you. Many people are grateful that you've been honest and something concrete chosen, the easier it is for them.

People give money for the First Communion, Confirmation, Bar Mitzvah, why not marriage, if at all?

Www.confetti.co.uk in the UK have a wish list. It's like a prepaid debit card. Register on the website and write a list of items you would explain how soon and then people will give money to certain items loaded on the card. Canthen use the card for items and / or Cost / promos / Workers 'pay' s invoices that you registered on the site.

Good luck!

~♥just me♥ ~ said...

I feel for you ... I'm not marrying the person, but my brother. He and his friend did not have their own place, so that they now hold dear gift cards until they get their own place and then buy things for your home. We've all been there and the same assessment as you sad. I always look so good. I mean, if anything, by word of mouth is probably the best way to meet people. When you hear some good answers please let me know! Good luck!

smudge said...

There is no way to ask for money, is not sticky. A gift is a personal decision that can decide to give money, but it is bad taste to insist that they give a special gift. (Or a gift to all for that matter)

Etiquette Gal said...

It is impolite to ask for donations.

It is extremely impolite to ask for monetary donations.

Whether you fall down, it's a corny poem or try to say very beautiful. Is it still one of the grossest things you might not.

Your invitations should contain no reference to donations of all kinds

Tweety said...

There is no good way to borrow money from the guests, because technically only invited to celebrate with you, not a gift. However, you can not register anywhere and people can be so important and the procession of brothers to spread the word, if you requested that you and your spouse the money could be used, or if you need your money instead of household items.

To visit at the wedding in Italy, which most people give money anyway.

Cadence Jade's Mommy said...

if we are together for so long and there is nothing you need, so do not ask for gifts. The purpose of a wedding is to help the new couple, their home together. Do not ask for money all ... always! with everything you need no excuse. Arent people and stupid ... They know better and can give a gift to yourself to give. If you discover a birthday party, you are welcome to request money as a gift? and not to a wedding ... Another important event or a different class of meaningful rules? My husband and I lived together, and although not ask for something to ... and if you asked what we wanted nothing but his company at the wedding. bought a few gifts, gave him some money and gave nothing ... and there was no difference to us. Plan your wedding and you can schedule your clients what to do with your money.

dani7735... said...

All we can do is spread by word of mouth
This means that if someone has your parents what you want to ask for them to say: "You know, Jim & Jane just started and I think those who love money or a gift card because you are not sure are, what they want "
You should not say - give us the money

cthor054 said...

Hmm, my sister used to connect ... My sister has a website where people can confirm their attendance at the ceremony on the site, said donations may be made to donate to this or that because he lives in another country, then s is married and could not bring gifts to home.
Maybe add something to your invitations?

David's Mom! said...

Do not leave anywhere.

It is very inappropriate to ask for money. If someone calls and asks to confirm your attendance, you tell them in May, I personally feel afraid when you submit an application lodged on $ not a gift.

David's Mom! said...

Do not leave anywhere.

It is very inappropriate to ask for money. If someone calls and asks to confirm your attendance, you tell them in May, I personally feel afraid when you submit an application lodged on $ not a gift.

mshighwa... said...

It is awkward and everything you want to have money, I pray not only that instead of gifts.

What is a limited list of gifts in one place that has a good choice (even if it is limited to all or spend most of the money) from the bank. When a "cause" they want to pay money, you could try to explain to these people - that is something that is acceptable, even if, for example, contribute to a deposit on a house in order, the purchase of a Flash car, I think, no.

Whatever you do, be aware that they should be thankful and grateful for what you are given (and are) grateful and happy

mshighwa... said...

It is awkward and everything you want to have money, I pray not only that instead of gifts.

What is a limited list of gifts in one place that has a good choice (even if it is limited to all or spend most of the money) from the bank. When a "cause" they want to pay money, you could try to explain to these people - that is something that is acceptable, even if, for example, contribute to a deposit on a house in order, the purchase of a Flash car, I think, no.

Whatever you do, be aware that they should be thankful and grateful for what you are given (and are) grateful and happy

Laura said...

No .... Unfortunately, there is no form of "good" to ask for something, especially money.

A gift is not even "necessary." You should never, ever made, all invited to a wedding, registration, and ask for even less money donations. He is down-right rude.

dookiebi... said...

Oh my! U are already asking for money? U must not marry !.... Money for a guest list. It is simply bad taste ... AND YET tacky tacky.

Avis B said...

Wedding guests do not like to say that the couple wants "money". There are many people prefer in this world, the "marriage."

There is only one way to do it right, and "indirectly" by the members of your wedding and / or parents. Pass the word. "On the question directly" answer may prefer a cash donation, but should not be written on your wedding invitation.

Answer: A certified marriage / professional wedding consultants a ceremony to celebrate the wedding

debi_071... said...

You do not want a guest list, as may be invited to the wedding, we need more information.

fairypel... said...

I went to a wedding together last year to sell a pair in a similar situation - 9 years 2 children.
AHD in your invitations, when a verse said something like
"As we were living in sin
we all, including the litter;
Instead, it is therefore estimated a gift, a contribution to our cash. ""
then had a treasure chest *** *** available at the reception, where guests can take their place "" "" Gift "
I have seen further invitations that want a state welll ** * is created at the reception.
When my daughter got married, would she and her husband in the city shortly after their marriage be saved - they have decided, as AHD more than they needed, they would ask customers to pay their own food.
Thus the letter they say something like
*** We would like your presence at our wedding to help us celebrate, but also of gifts we ask that you pay for your own **** to eat
I think people are really your friends and careThey understand your situation and do not be offended by an invitation to a monetary policy, instead of another gift.

pspoptar... said...

There is no way to Nice. It is considered extremely impolite to ask directly for money or gifts if they rhyme cards or not. The best thing to do is send an announcement of their marriage than those with degrees and see if it is something.

DSL said...

You can not very well - he is in poor taste. If I am invited, I would be offended and just send a card.

MARiA said...

I am in Mexico and is a tradition for us a special waltz, where everyone can dance with the bride and groom. The safety pins couple to dance for people who want to dance with them to save money on their boyfriend or girlfriend dress tux .... During the finals and to each person to use the safety pin to fix the money in eather the bride or groom. After the money is counted to thank everyone for their kind donations. I do not understand why, but its tradition ..... You can probably Give it a try ..... Good luck!

shih tzu lady said...

Other guests did not like it and think the cheeky, but if you already have a house together and then I personally would not mind. I have enclosed a few phone calls short poems about the situation (can not find, now I'm not using!), But I think there are things that appear on the Internet. If your concern may be that some people have a store coupon that you want to use, and perhaps suggests a place in the future, ie, B & Q, John Lewis, Next, Home, M & S, so I seek the poem and then publish to.

silent1 said...

I look forward to the responses received so far Sorry, we have extended our need for money and gift cards from mouth to mouth, not an updated list (even if it ended with lots of towels!) And put a little note on the invitation, so something like: "We have long together, and do not need anything for our country, we share your business to our very special day. People want to buy gifts, but the money has exploded on a card is easier than it worked for us. Good luck, I hope that everything goes well.

Fiona said...

Tell them it is better to give money instead of gifts. They already live together and have 3 children. They understand very well. If I am one of the results, I would be more than happy to money to at least Do not waste time thinking about what gift you know.
Be are honest and true, your marriage and life afterwards.

Wolfe said...

I need help please can me and my wife's wedding dresses cash. Thank you very much. I will try to repay. That's what I would do. Try it out. I think this will work, if not to point the finger at me!

Wolfe said...

I need help please can me and my wife's wedding dresses cash. Thank you very much. I will try to repay. That's what I would do. Try it out. I think this will work, if not to point the finger at me!

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